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Antonio Iturra's avatar

My crush is Kate Beckinsale. (Connelly is, too).

Instant gratification is what's common these days, so to avoid it and really manage it not just for others but for our own sake feels healthy and also empowering.

Imagining the kiss with Kate, waiting for 3 days really feels a lot but I can wait! Not sure if my wife would, though :P

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Todd Kashdan's avatar

😂- I imagine the 3 days texting and calling friends would be amazing.

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Shirley-Moana Duff's avatar

Great advice - whether its a first hand hold or wanting to finish a really good book the build-up can be amazing. I have also experienced the opposite when the event has so much build up - it doesn't live up to the hype. Maybe the secret sauce is embracing anticipation whilst moderating expectations so that you can enjoy the moment for what it is, rather than what you imagined it to be. Dr Frank-N-Furters rendition of 'Sweet Transvestite' ... "so come up to the lab, and see what's on the slab, I see you shiver with antici ......................." would have been a perfect song choice for this article.

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Todd Kashdan's avatar

Completely agree.

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