Strange Expressions of Love, Adult Male Friendships, Sex Differences in Life Longevity Obsessions, and the Invisible Effort Problem

Plus Video of the Anything Goes Provoked Community Monthly Zoom Call

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Appreciating Romantic Relationship Diversity

I would be remiss if I didn’t write anything about love today. Of interest to me are the different ways you can express love. From companions expressing their undying affection with fists to sending someone that 1980s staple: a personalized mixed tape. Do send this to someone you care about:

Now, more than ever, it’s essential to embrace your individuality. Why? Because of Stanford University’s unsettling 5-year study on how people find their romantic partners (source). And for extra flavor, you can watch it in video form, with eerie music that feels like the soundtrack when stuck on hold with your podiatrist:

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The Anything Goes Provoked Community Zoom Call

Below is a recap of yesterday’s life-affirming Provoked Community Zoom call. As our community grows, these monthly Zoom calls get better. The title of this article merely scratches the surface of the vast topics covered.

If you couldn’t make it, enjoy the video. I hope more of you can join next time. Send me dates and times that work in our chat room.