ha, thanks! Right, most discussions of rejection only focus on the target and not the interaction with the initiator. As if it doesn't take two to tango....unless it's the new world of polyamory.
Interrelational stuff is so poorly understood by the masses. They seem to hyperfocus on the one-way cause and effect and overvalue their emotional experience as a final consequence.
ha, thanks! Right, most discussions of rejection only focus on the target and not the interaction with the initiator. As if it doesn't take two to tango....unless it's the new world of polyamory.
Interrelational stuff is so poorly understood by the masses. They seem to hyperfocus on the one-way cause and effect and overvalue their emotional experience as a final consequence.
What I really appreciate about these suggestions is how they reframe the experiences for both you and your conversation partner.
Too bad this guidance can’t go viral like some of the bad self-diagnosis stuff does.