Provoked with Dr. Todd Kashdan

Provoked with Dr. Todd Kashdan

Avoiding, Accepting, and Harnessing Pain: Turning Stoicism into Scientific Tools and Strategies

Five stages of psychological flexibility

Aug 08, 2024
∙ Paid

Want to know the emotion that people are most afraid of? How to handle painful emotions? I did an amazing live interview with one of the most brilliant, underappreciated minds in the well-being space: Nick Mayhew.

If you are looking to better understand mental agility and fortitude, I promise, you will enjoy this. One of my favorites parts is when Nick asked about the importance of emotional intensity - which often gets lost in the mix compared with the attention given to “positive” and “negative” experiences. Listen to our 49 minute conversation here:

If you just want the audio for the car or a walk, click here.

If you want our Personalized Psychological Flexibility Index, click here.

Thanks for reading Provoked. If you’d like to support my work:

  • Leave a ❤️ so that others can find it;

  • Leave a comment (I’ll do my best to respond);

  • Share this post by email or on social media;

  • Start a paid subscription to this Substack (with benefits such as access to monthly virtual calls, premium chat room, and 200+ article archive).


If you are already a premium subscriber, let me detail Nick’s two additional levels to our psychological flexibility model. Here is the impressive, flexible mindset diagnostic:

User's avatar

Continue reading this post for free, courtesy of Todd Kashdan.

Or purchase a paid subscription.
© 2026 Dr. Todd B. Kashdan · Privacy ∙ Terms ∙ Collection notice
Start your SubstackGet the app
Substack is the home for great culture